Phylmarie Fëss

get well card

a girl was battered

sometimes by her angry mother with the father’s belt,

but because mother said to,

most often her father swung that leather strip

or his hand,

while he said,

“look at me when i talk to you.

don’t look at me like that.”

or he’d ask,

“what are you crying for? i’ll give you something to cry for,”

“don’t you feel it? i’ll make you feel it,”

then he’d hit again.

again.

and the girl hugged herself and tried not to cry too much or too little

saying in her mind, “not your fault.

remember they used to love you.

try to forgive.

try.

it’s not

your

fault.”

a young woman was declared tramp and evicted

by her landlady

when she respectfully, privately

requested that the older woman tell the elder's father

to please keep his strange words,

and his hands

off.

so the young woman walked along the treed, nighttime road

with cases and purse in arms and wept silently

while strangers stared

thinking to herself, “not your fault.

they are sick.

try to forgive.

try.

it’s not

your

fault.”

an at-home-alone daughter was raped

by a drunken neighbour

who chastised her sin,

so she reclused to her room

and watched the door,

for months.

till one evening she whispered her shame,

and her mother recradled the girl in arms and wept with her,

saying, “not your fault.

his mind is sick.

try to forgive.

try.

it’s not

your

fault.”

a ‘with-child’ woman was pounded

by a stranger who threw his jacket over her head

on a downtown street,

beaten as he shrieked, “bitch! bitch!”

and later her sister held the woman in her arms and wept with her

saying, “not your fault.

his mind is sick.

try to forgive.

try.

it’s not

your

fault.”

how many more

we belted girls?

we tormented women?

we raped daughters?

we pounded mothers?

before we all walk together

and need no longer cry, “not our fault.

it's the violence-borne society,

the violence-porne society,

the violence-torn society,

that is sick.

it’s not

our

fault.”

no more,

Creator, please.

no more,

now.

we

walk

together

now.

~ manidoonaateshing-ikwe / phylmarie

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